Sir, it often feels that until a person becomes successful, they do not receive genuine love, respect, or recognition—not even from close relationships like family, children, or a partner. It also seems that true friends are made only after one becomes successful, and even friendships often begin to feel stronger and more affectionate at that stage.
Because of this, there is a constant and unspoken pressure to achieve success in order to be valued and appreciated. This pressure can be quite overwhelming at times, as it creates a sense that a person’s worth is measured more by their achievements than by who they truly are.
I also want to express my deep respect for you, Alakh Pandey sir. I have been following you since 2018–19, when you were teaching for free on YouTube. I have personally seen your discipline and hard work, and that is truly inspiring.